Oh my. You two are so different, the stars are unsure about this sort of relationship. Cancer and Aquarius do not seem very compatible. Your deep-running oceans may very well scare off Aquarius’s light-footed wind. And just as well, Aquarius is not nearly as caring or sensitive as you wished, dear Cancer.
This relationship will only survive with a lot (read: a LOT) of effort and compromise. Aquarius is analytical and logical, everything you aren’t. Aquarius uses reason for all of his arguments, and won’t be capable of understanding your intuitions or feelings. Aquarius will often be baffled by your intuition, seeing as it isn’t something he can hold and touch, feel in his hands. You, on the other hand, may find yourself becoming frustrated by Aquarius’s inability to understand you and the million questions you have to put up with.
Aquarius is reserved and cold, unable to show his feelings in the way you want. He won’t stay at home, either, something you may feel the need to reproach him about – don’t. The more you complain to him about it, the more he won’t feel like staying home!
Aquarius is adventurous and independent, unable to stay in one place for too long. You, on the other hand, wish only to have a quiet night on the couch, with a romantic movie and your partner by your side. He just won’t understand your feelings in this regard. You will need to catch him, sit him down and explain this in a way he understands. He may assume you are too jealous at times, but this only comes from the insecurity you feel at being unable to keep him home for too long. Explain yourself and he will come to understand your point of view. After all, Aquarius is all about logic. However, if you get in one of your discussions, be wary of his absolute truthfulness. From Aquarius’s analytical mind comes a need to tell the whole truth and nothing but the truth. Try not to let his words hurt you, he is only doing what he thinks is best.
Aquarius is too eccentric and changing for your taste. If you really want to stay with her, you will have to completely change yourself. She loves going out, like I’ve said before, and will greatly appreciate it if you got out of the house more often and socialized with her. This may be hard to do, but you may find yourself enjoying it more than you thought you would.
In return, it would do for you to teach Aquarius about the value of feelings and emotions. Logic and pragmatism is all well and fine, but there is such a wealth of knowledge to be found in the emotional realm you live in, and if you present this properly to your partner he will be eager to learn more.
Your sexual life will be fine for awhile, but you enjoy making love on such a deeper level than your partner you will often think he is not taking it as seriously as you. This is Aquarius’s reserved nature shining through.
This relationship could work, if you are really in love with your Aquarius, but it will take a lot of self-sacrifice dear Crab.